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During the Advent season families should spend time together preparing for the approaching celebration of the birth of Christ. An Advent wreath can be a great focal point for family prayers and holiday celebrations.
An Advent wreath is a wreath of laurel, spruce or similar foliage with four candles that are lighted successively in the weeks of Advent to symbolize the light that the birth of Christ brought into the world. Traditionally three of the candles are purple, the color of kings and of penance. A rose-colored candle is used to mark the Third Sunday of Advent as a time to rejoice over the closeness of Christmas and the coming of Christ.
Each day your family should gather around the Advent wreath, generally before the evening meal. The proper number of candles are then lit and a prayer is said.
The blessing of the Advent wreath takes place on the First Sunday of Advent. The following prayer can be used:
Leader: Our help is in the name of the Lord.
All: Who made heaven and earth.
Leader: Let us pray. O God, by whose Word all things are sanctified, pour fourth Your blessing upon this wreath and grant that we who use it may prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ and may receive from Your abundant graces. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All: Amen
The wreath would then be sprinkled with water. The daily candle lighting follows.
FIRST WEEK: The following prayer should be repeated each day during the first week. Before the prayer, the family’s youngest child lights the first purple candle.
Leader: Lord, rouse Your power, we pray, and come; that we may deserve by Your protection to be rescued from the threatening dangers of our sins and by Your deliverance to be made free from them; You who are God, living and reigning with God the Father in the unity of the Holy Spirit, forever and ever.
All: Amen
The candle is allowed to burn during evening meals for the first week.
SECOND WEEK: The prayer that follows is to be repeated each day of the second week. Before the prayer, the oldest child lights the first and second purple candles.
Leader: Stir up our hearts, Lord, to make ready the paths of Your only-begotten Son, that through His coming we may become worthy to serve You with purified minds. You who are God, living and reigning.
All:Amen
The two candles are allowed to burn during the evening meals of the second week.
THIRD WEEK: The following prayer is to be repeated each day of the third week. Before the prayer, the mother lights the first two purple candles and the pink candle.
Leader: Lord, lend Your ear, we beg, to our prayers, and lighten the darkness of our minds with the grace of Your coming. You who are God, living and reigning.
All: Amen
The three candles are allowed to burn during the evening meals of the third week.
FOURTH WEEK: The prayer that follows may be repeated each day of the fourth week. Before the prayer, the father lights all four candles.
Leader: Lord, rouse Your power, we pray, and come; lend Your great strength to aid us; so that through the help of Your grace and by Your merciful forgiveness, the good which our sins obstruct may be quickly brought to us. You, who are God, living and reigning.
All: Amen
The four candles are allowed to burn during the evening meals of the fourth week.
After the fourth week, the penitential season of Advent is over and the time to rejoice is at hand. The Advent wreath is transformed into a Christmas wreath. Ribbon and candles are replaced with red ribbon and long red tapers (to be lighted at breakfast on Christmas morning) and, if desired, other festive decorations can be added.
Promote Advent wreaths through council bulletins as a means for families to mark their preparation for the coming celebration of Christ’s birth.
In addition to having an Advent wreath as part of your family’s Christmas celebration, create your own Advent calendar of actions that you and your family can take each day to bring you closer to Christ. Write the scheduled activities on a calendar that is prominently posted. These activities could include donating toys to a drive for needy children, bringing used clothing to a collection for homeless people, volunteering at a soup kitchen, reading a Christmas poem or story aloud, attending Mass together, or placing a crèche in your home.
Please share this information with families in your council, your parish and the community.
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